Hiroshima – An Ode to Living

In a city linked with death, life is everywhere

In June 1945, Hiroshima was predicted to be unsafe for human habitation for at least 70 years. It seemed optimistic.

Though the sun rose and set over the city as it had since the dawn of its birth, the absence of light was palpable. A war which had decimated a city, dishonoured a nation and divided a planet was finally at an end, but the true cost of what had happened at 8:15am on June 6th was yet to be felt. The dust may have settled and the sky no longer rained droplets of fire, but the aftershock of such a powerful weapon had no precedent in either science or science fiction.

A conventional bomb causes death, but nothing yet made by man took life from its victims like the fruit of the Manhattan Project. Those who did not die physically suffered horrific burns, deep emotional scars and debilitating birth defects which would take generations to correct, leaving a sickening feeling that those within the hypocentre had almost been lucky. By the end of the year 160,000 lives had been lost, and with such a dark cloud hovering above, Hiroshima could easily have died with them.


72 years later and Hiroshima’s heart is not just still beating, but the city is an ode to living. If the plentiful, yet tasteful, reminders of the city’s pained history were not there, it would be even harder to believe its people’s stories of suffering were true. The streets are not as filled, nor the lights as bright as many other regions of Japan, but Hiroshima functions as a working city with a calm dignity. Life does not move quickly, but rather celebrates and savours the fact that it moves at all.

Each city of Japan has a unique character more distinct than in any country either Billie or I had visited, but Hiroshima was the first with a soul as open for all to see.

A city like Tokyo is made up almost entirely of smaller towns and districts. One could spend weeks wandering each of these without feeling they had discovered, let alone understood, the true heart of the city, with their many variations in architecture, food and culture.

This is not true of Hiroshima, as the intangible feeling of the city is present and similar in all of its corners. Hiroshima has welcomed the challenge thrust upon it to change its perception as a place of unspeakable violence and tragedy, and been transformed into a world centre of peace and tranquillity.


Whilst the reminders of war are constant, they are cautionary when vengeful would perhaps have been more understandable.

The ‘Atomic Bomb Dome’, formerly a hall for exhibitions of art and innovative products, is one of few buildings to survive the blast that still stands to this day. The skeletal frame of its formerly full cupola haunts the skyline of Hiroshima with an eerie beauty like the cage of a vulture. Its presence is inescapable, and in the early years of the city’s revival such a stark and ghostly reminder of its former prosperity proved controversial.

As much as many of its citizens would have killed to wipe the slate clean, Hiroshima needed to live both with, and in spite of, its history. The dome’s importance as a dark relic of remembrance had to be fought for, but look closely on a sunny day and the beams entering through the near demolished ceiling reflect to form a nest of light. Though it was born in darkness, the dome is symbolic of the city’s rebirth from rubble and ash.


The rebuilding of life doesn’t just stretch to humankind and its buildings, as we found Hiroshima to be one of the greenest cities in Japan.

From learning the cold, numerical facts of the atomic bomb in history and physics lessons, I had assumed that soil in the hypocentre would forever be unusable, but where was once a blackened crater is now a stunning memorial garden and museum. At its centre, an eternal flame burns for those who lost their lives and provides a focal point for remembrance and reflection in a quiet space only interrupted by bird song and the laughter of children.

Though we visited in autumn, it is clear to see that the garden is very deliberately evergreen. A truly humbling walk through the museum tells personal stories which humanise the devastating numbers, but the natural light which permeates the building reminds one of what has happened since. By no means is the impact lessened, as all who enter undoubtedly leave with an altered worldview, but thoughtful planning and even better execution bring hope to a place with such potential for bleakness.


The entire prefecture of Hiroshima basks in the light originating from the city. Two of our five days in the area were spent exploring the bounteous surrounding islands, home to some of our favourite sights in Japan.

The island of Miyajima was outside of the main blast radius, and as such gives a unique insight into the ancient history of the prefecture few other places can. The ferry ride itself is worth the trip out, as even in autumn the bright orange ‘floating’ shrine provides a striking reminder of Japan’s rich religious heritage. In one of many happy coincidences to befall us on our travels so far, we were treated to a showing of the healing process Hiroshima has undertaken in practice. Buddhist monks walked across hot coals to ward off evil spirits and cleanse the soul, showing that whilst fire is destructive, it also has the power to heal.


When the attack on Hiroshima effectively ended the war in the Far East, the weaponised poison gas factory housed on the island of Ōkunoshima no longer had a use. The rabbits used in testing were freed and it isn’t difficult to imagine what happened next. From 20 rabbits in 1945, there are now thousands. A bag of carrots or nutritious pellets will make you incredibly popular for however long it lasts, and if you can escape harassment long enough to find a secluded spot there are few places on earth better for a picnic.


Our last night in Hiroshima consolidated what we had come to learn and love about the city. On an all to frequent trip to find sushi and curry bread, we stumbled across what looked like the switching on of the city’s Christmas lights.

The man we assumed to be the mayor gave a short speech in front of a modest crowd before a brass band played an unfamiliar, yet festive tune and the countdown began.

But what was lit at the pressing of the button was far more poignant than any set of Christmas lights. Stretching as far as the eye could see and in every possible colour, Hiroshima now shined in a sea of electric art. The annual Dreamination festival had begun.


Split into four distinct sections each highlighting a different aspect of the theme, residents and visitors young and old played in and enjoyed the now nocturnal city centre. Along with the feast for the eyes, the ears were treated to several live music acts and the taste buds to traditional food stalls in a newly pedestrianised area. This festival wasn’t for or about Christmas, but the spirit of giving, togetherness and joy through peace was clear for all to see.


Hiroshima deserves recognition for the way it has recovered from heartbreak and become a Japanese city to rival its ancient brothers. So often a name followed by “bomb” or “attack” in the same way that crystal is trailed by “clear”, Hiroshima bravely fights its perception as a city in the shadow of tragedy. But despite all this it reminds us of a fact so easy to forget: for a shadow to form, it must be shrouded in light.

“A Stranger’s just a Friend you Haven’t Met”

A crisis averted thanks to new friends

If ever you could use a fresh mint tea to calm your nerves, it’s after watching a bus holding all your belongings turn onto a motorway without you.  Like those who recount near death experiences say time seems to slow and one knows instinctively what to do to maintain the best chance of survival, it seemed vitally important to me while sprinting behind this bus to keep the tea upright and save its contents, minus the collateral drops now scalding my hands, chest and legs, at all costs.

The buying of this tea from a rest stop McDonalds somewhere over the Czech border was an easy scapegoat of blame for the pickle Billie and I now found ourselves in, but in that moment it provided sweet, if small, relief. I knew I only had a few seconds before staring down the slip road and not confronting the problem or comforting my girlfriend would be seen as unhelpful, so I decided to take full advantage. After waving the cup under my nose to steal any relaxation hiding in the fumes, I sipped and took the moment to feel better before preparing to pretend to Billie that I had a fucking clue what to do next. Although it fought every stereotypical instinct I had as an English male, the only option was to ask someone for help.

As we know our backpacks and lack of familiarity in our new environment make us an easy target, we have always erred on the side of caution when it comes to security. Our bags have a padlock on each zip, we put our tablet back in the bottom of the bag every time after checking directions and at times hesitate to trust those offering to take our photo with our camera. By no means do we never feel safe and pack a cricket bat with which to arm ourselves every time we turn onto a dark street, but it pays to be vigilant.

Almost everyone we told about our travels offered the advice to “stay safe and look after each other”, and for anything to happen to us would break countless promises.

We also, to a fault, feel an overwhelming urge to tackle problems independently even if this takes thrice as long as reaching out to others. There is nothing more demoralising to a stubborn person than admitting defeat and asking for directions to a museum or restaurant after searching for an hour, only to be 10 yards from its door. Taking the plunge to embark upon this journey is without question the most challenging and independent thing either of us have ever done, and showing that we need help can sometimes feel like we bit off more than we could chew. Of course asking for help is actually a sign of strength, but everyone who has ever had to do so knows that that’s not always how it seems.

But this situation was different. All we had with us was a debit card, a phone without mobile data with 6% charge and the clothes on our backs. This wasn’t getting lost trying to find a statue or an ice cream stall, it was not being entirely sure which country we were in.

There’s being out your depth, and then there’s full on drowning.

What we were met with after admitting we needed assistance was more than we ever could have hoped for. Kindness, by nature, can only happen in a situation where it would be easier to do nothing, but the people we met that day were willing to help us when they simply didn’t have to. They were busy, communicating in a language which was not their own and offered no reward, but could see we were in trouble and took that as the only reasoning required.

The first person we met was Jakob, a Polish man transporting film equipment across Europe who fortunately spoke English and German and offered to call the bus company for us and try to explain our situation. It would eventually come to nothing (as a strongly worded email to the customer service department would later show) but the weight lifted off of our shoulders now that there was a plan in place was immense. Already full of gratitude and humility, we then learned that Jakob was actually on the first day of a new job, and had prioritised us at a time when most would have not taken any risks with time at all.

Waiting for a call back from the bus company that would never come, the next six hours were spent nursing drinks and trading sympathetic looks with staff. We were beginning to lose hope until Eliška and Dominik, who were unlucky enough to be looking after us purely because they spoke very little English, offered to drive us the 60km we were short of Prague at the end of their shift. The tears we had both been fighting to hold back in those hours started to flow as each frantic “are you sure????” was greeted with a smiling nod. They would not even accept money for fuel and dropped us off at our correct bus stop a mere seven hours later than expected. Buoyed by a renewed faith in humanity, but anxious as to whether we would get any of our things back, we checked in to our hostel for a sleepless night.

After some frankly incredible detective work honed through dozens of tv cop dramas and several angry phone calls, we managed to find out when and where the same bus would be leaving Prague. Unshowered and in the same clothes as the day before, we staggered to the bus station smelling like that bottle of milk sitting in every university halls fridge who’s owner has long been forgotten.


The length of time we had to kill was longer than gut wrenching worry can stave off an appetite, so camping out for a platform floor picnic seemed the only option. Eating Alpro yogurts with toddler spoons bought from Tiger provided one of the most special photos of our journey so far, and an attitude that we were getting drunk on cheap Czech lager whatever happened that night made the situation much more bearable. The station pianist playing ‘Yesterday’ while we were waiting may have felt like a sarcastic personal attack, but we powered through and were eventually reunited with our bags. Jubilant with victory, the evening consisted of a shower, mini golf, a drink in the ice bar and lots and lots of much needed sleep.


It’s in a crisis where you realise the good nature of most people. If it hadn’t been for Jakob, Eliška and Dominik’s kindness that day, our travels could well have ended with a hefty bill and an even heftier sense of regret for ever getting off that bloody bus. With this newfound confidence in the kindness of strangers, we’ve met some incredible people on our trip that we never otherwise would have. From new friends in hostels offering tips, tricks and recommendations to the happiest man in all of Tokyo walking us straight to the door of a ramen shop half a mile down the road, backpacking as a couple has no longer become a journey just for two. Whilst you should never lose your wits and always be careful, a stranger is often just a friend you haven’t yet had the pleasure of meeting.

“A Steak and a Salad, Please.”

Top tips for travel as a couple where only one is vegan

Contrary to popular belief, there are many vegans who don’t like to talk about being vegan. I don’t think other than through necessity I’ve ever started a conversation about it. I try very hard to ensure that as small a part of my lifestyle and personality as my love of cartoons or partiality for a game of table football doesn’t dominate my identity. And yet, it seems to be a topic I’ve discussed at every meal and with every new person I have met for the last 18 months. The introduction often goes: “This is Sam, he’s one of them vegans.”

Replies to this can vary from a reassuring (I think) sentiments like “you look well for a vegan” and “you’ll feel better soon”, to my new acquaintance getting cross with me for something I technically, and very specifically, haven’t done, which my mum always said would never happen.

As Billie eats everything, at times in some questionable combinations, we’re often asked how we manage day to day. The short answer is that we’ve never allowed it to be an issue.

Whilst surfing the web (I’m also old before my time, but nobody seems to lead with that fact) to find a name for mixed diet relationships such as Billie’s and mine, I instead came across a lot of debate as to whether such pairings could, and should, even exist. To this I would argue that differences from oneself is a large part of what makes a companion interesting, and agreeing with each other all the time sounds incredibly dull. I personally have spent so long asking others to accept my dietary choice as something which does not affect them that to do so to others seems unnecessarily hypocritical. If all other elements of your personalities align and complement each other well, it’s no more divisive than any other difference for a couple to overcome. In fact, trying foods together that we never would have alone is one of the most fun, and delicious, parts of our relationship.

This is of course easier to deal with when at home where we can prepare our own meals and tweak them to our own specific needs, but travelling to unknown lands can make things much more complicated. To be “hangry” is now an internationally accepted term for a relationship straining feeling which is millennia old, and avoiding this at all costs is a priority. It doesn’t have to be strictly a vegan versus an omnivorous diet; almost all differences in dietary requirements and preferences can be overcome by following some simple rules and guidelines. Here is what we’ve learned so far while travelling.

Don’t let it stop you eating the best local delicacies

Most countries and many regions have their own must-eat foods, which for a travelling foodie no trip would be complete without. As many of these date back for decades or even centuries, most will contain some meat, dairy or eggs. However, with the rise in veganism across the world this is a much smaller issue than ten or even five years ago, particularly in bigger cities. There are stalls in cities which will offer vegan, gluten free or other variations alongside the real thing, so nobody needs to miss out.



This is a crucial step. A little time spent in preparation beforehand can save a lot of aggro and uncover some real hidden gems on your doorstep or on a small street tucked away nearby. There are a number of apps and websites available to help in this situation, with Happy Cow proving to be the best and most reliable in our experience. Not only are we able to seek out the best completely vegan and vegetarian restaurants, but also those which offer meat and vegan options under one roof, keeping us both very happy. Marking several spots where you may like to eat will allow for you to decide to eat whenever you are hungry, which can hit you in a wave without much warning and leave you stranded for a suitable eatery.


Try not to get hangry

Getting hangry, though sometimes unavoidable, doesn’t help anyone. One morning, we finally found breakfast at a café in Berlin after much discussion and wandering. Hungry and tired, we ordered an apple tart to share along with our breakfast. As it arrived the hairs on my neck stood to attention and without hesitation split it directly in half to make sure Billie didn’t get a crumb more than I did like a jackal eager not to be the runt of the litter… Not the most romantic start to our first anniversary. Always make sure you have plenty of snacks available.


Cook for yourselves where possible

Particularly for budget or long term travellers, certain hostels and Airbnb properties will offer cooking facilities. They may be limited, missing utensils/appliances or less than spotless, but will save you some pennies and aggro if you can’t stretch to eating out for every meal. Which saves so much more for activities!



Last but certainly not least, compromise is the key to this, and any, part of a successful relationship. By all means don’t be afraid to take and to put your foot down with a fully vegan or raw restaurant, but the giving is just as important. Making a meal from four side dishes and a garden salad should not be an unfamiliar task to you by now.



“Are you sure this was a good idea?”

Day 1 of 273 didn’t quite go to plan

3am. Tuesday 19th September. Somewhere in the North Sea.

My eyes blink several times and the blur that they reveal lingers longer than it usually takes to blend into clarity. I’m not sure exactly what it is that’s caused me to wake up, as all five of my senses are flared to levels that my tired mind is unable to fully comprehend. Only a moment or two pass before I’m fully awake, but I become aware of each feeling in a very specific order. Our farewell drink is beginning to strike revenge, as while asleep my tongue had settled like a dozing beached dad made into a mermaid sculpture; peaceful at first, but once disturbed sending a cascade of dryly compact sand directly onto each of my taste buds. I can feel the floor below me rocking like the proverbial casbah and turning my fragile stomach. From this I ascertain that we must still be at sea. The lights are on and harsh with the industrial glow only low cost accommodation can provide and this makes my waking up only the more disorienting. On the hangover scale I’m hitting a modest six at most – not enough to wake me up. Something else is afoot here. My ears and nose are yet to come around, but its these that will play the biggest part in setting the tone for the rest of my day.







Billie’s waking experience has undoubtedly been worse than mine; not even able to stir before ending up head in the bowl of a toilet she can’t climb out of long enough to flush. A morally complex and unbalanced mix of concern for my new travel partner’s wellbeing and utter, utter relief that I am on the top bunk washes over me. I climb down the ladder and choose my footing very carefully before priming my hands for holding back hair.

Day 1 of 273 isn’t a start as we meant to go on.

Our first 24 hours in the Netherlands could easily have ended with a quick return voyage. After eventually falling back to sleep, we woke again 4 minutes before we needed to leave the boat and threw everything we owned back into our backpacks to run back to shore. Not only was it becoming clear that even the most diluted guess at how much a person needs for a nine month adventure is bloody heavy when you’re carrying it everywhere, but I was in danger of losing Billie completely as her face blended into the emerald hoodie she was wearing. We were tired, dehydrated and generally disillusioned with what was supposed to be the beginning of a lifestyle change for the good. With only a tentative bread roll to settle the stomach and a small bottle of water for sustenance, we dragged our aching limbs across Rotterdam in several short stints, each very necessary stop positively disguised as a “nice little sit down” with a stiff upper lip, before passing out as soon as our heads hit the hotel pillow. We’d made it. Just.

Three weeks later and, while it hasn’t always been plain sailing, thankfully the waters have calmed considerably. We forced ourselves back out that first night into our borough of Rotterdam and were reminded of the reasons why we doing what we’re doing. The city is littered with posters which read:

“Take a picture of Rotterdam’s skyline today, for it won’t be the same tomorrow.”

Looking out over the now luminous 800m Erasmus Bridge and the kaleidoscope of colours stretching high in the distance, no quote would be more appropriate. The excitement within Rotterdam is almost tangible and its sense of newness and individuality in fact made it an ideal place to begin our travels. From the fittingly forcefully titled Powermask exhibit of the Wereldmuseum, to the truly Dutch diversity of the Fenix Food Factory, to the provocative beauty of over a thousand examples of street art, no place is quite like Rotterdam. What began with illness there soon became the medicine we knew travel would provide, and we are feeling all the better for it. Neither of us have mentioned going home since.

This rocky maiden voyage wasn’t the first problem we’ve overcome together (and not the first on this trip, but that’s for a later post), but it often comes as a surprise how well we’re able to deal with them when they arise. We’ve crossed two countries in the Netherlands and Germany, visiting three cities in each, and have plenty of stories to tell and memories to share. We can only apologise for making you wait so long for an update, but finding the time to document an amazing moment with more than a photograph (which we also have plenty of, be sure to follow our instagram at @bamthebackpackers) before the next one comes along has proved very difficult. We promise that future updates will improve not only in frequency, but variety and wisdom as well.

“Why don’t we just run away?”

“Auntie Maxine’s Cauliflower Cheese will still be here when we get back”

Over the course of our relationship, Billie and I had each asked this far more times than it would have been worthwhile to count. Despite being as young, as whimsical and as in love as any archetypal runaways, it was in fact a question we had several answers for. That’s not what the romantics will tell you, but it’s the truth. Some minutes into the questioner wooing the questionee with tales of hypothetical serenades on a Venetian gondola or the gentle fall of flower petals in tranquil Japanese gardens, the former’s eyes would glaze to show that they were truly lost in a dream. If there were no buckets of water available to bring them back to reality, the only solution was to be hit with a shuddering thud of an answer from the list including, but not limited to:

“The money we’ve been saving is our house fund.”

“We both have jobs.”

“Auntie Maxine’s cauliflower cheese isn’t a traditional Christmas dish in Hanoi.”

But there was a time in April that seemed different to the countless others which had occurred before. On a romantic weekend away in Billie’s university city of Canterbury, we had one of those days. Not that kind, the other kind. I may not be able to speak for anyone else, but I feel like everyone that’s been in a long term relationship must have those days where you realise how much you really love your partner. You love them every day, of course, but every so often just how much can hit you square in the jaw with the unexpected force of a counter left hook from Iron Mike Tyson. It doesn’t have to be something they necessarily say or do, and it’s often the quieter moments of reflection where the feeling is most pronounced. It’s easy to become complacent when you’ve been with someone for long enough that their presence and everything they do becomes a given, which is why when the moments come where you realise all you ever want to do is explore new places with this person, it pays to do something about it before it’s too late.

After this particularly strong revelation, our reasoning for not running away collapsed. Is this something we’re going to talk about for the rest of our lives, or is it something we’re going to do? While we’re still young enough to not have the ties of a mortgage, an immediate family of our own or careers that would not allow for a break, how can I pass up the opportunity to see the world with my best friend?

I prepared my comebacks to any possible retort Billie might have to my plan:

“We’ll make more money.”

“We won’t be unemployed. Exploring is a legitimate and noble profession.”

“Cauliflower cheese will still be here when we get back. I’d be very surprised if Maxine’s recipe isn’t backed up to the Cloud if she doesn’t have it memorised.”

Little did I know Billie had come to a similar realisation. As the wine flowed and the same old question was asked again, suddenly we both only had one answer in mind.

“Why don’t we?”

Fast forward five months and after some loose planning and a lot of tearful goodbyes, we’re as ready as we’ll ever be to set sail on our big adventure. With this blog we’ll be bringing you stories and articles from the most interesting parts of our trip, hoping to offer some insight as well as some entertainment. Thanks for coming along for the ride.